When Am Israel walked to the graves of the three boys, they lit the NER which in hebrew looks like a foot L and the letter Reish or the "upside down foot" which means head. When the feet go to the head, the ner (light) is lit...women who stay at home light the light instead of the pilgrimage.
This constitute being together the way Rabbi Nachman requested. "Just be together and I will be with you".
Coming out of Egypt into Gaza that was NOT the case as each person helped his own tribe, but no one was concerned with Josef except Moses and Serach bat Asher. The Evil Eye has great influence in the Middle East.
The head and feet have been connected, so I am optimistic that this time, since we are "carrying the bones", we will merit to enter through Gaza!